OpenAI Chief Executive Officer Sam Altman has publicly acknowledged the financial impact of users employing polite language when interacting with the company’s AI chatbot, ChatGPT. Altman revealed that when users say phrases such as “please” and “thank you” to the AI, it results in millions of extra dollars in operational costs for OpenAI.

The conversation began on 15 April 2025 when a social media user queried, “I wonder how much money OpenAI has lost in electricity costs from people saying ‘please’ and ‘thank you’ to their models.” In response, Altman, posting on X (formerly known as Twitter), acknowledged these additional costs but considered them worthwhile. He stated, “Tens of millions of dollars well spent–you never know.”

The implication is that while politeness increases computational expense due to longer interactions with the AI model, Altman perceives the practice as valuable, though the full reasoning behind the comment remains open to interpretation.

Further insight into the effects of politeness when addressing AI comes from Kurtis Beavers, a design director on Microsoft Copilot’s team. In a Microsoft WorkLab memo, Beavers noted that using basic etiquette when interacting with AI helps the system produce “respectful, collaborative outputs.” He added that being courteous “not only ensures you get the same graciousness in return, but it also improves the AI’s responsiveness and performance.”

Research published in December 2024 by Future sheds light on user behaviours regarding politeness towards AI chatbots. It found that 67 per cent of people in the United States report being polite to AI, while the figure is slightly higher in the United Kingdom, with 71 per cent of users demonstrating courtesy in their interactions. Not all users adopt this approach, however; some report being impolite as a means to save time and maintain brevity.

Additionally, around 12 per cent of respondents indicated they were polite to AI out of concern for possible repercussions in future interactions, which may link back to Altman’s cryptic observation about the value of spending extra resources on courteous exchanges with AI models.

As AI chatbots become more integrated into daily communications, these findings highlight current user attitudes toward politeness and the unforeseen costs and benefits associated with it in the realm of artificial intelligence.

Source: Noah Wire Services