It was dark, and I found myself whispering to a charming Danish woman I had just met moments earlier at the Tivoli Theatre in Aberdeen. The ambience enveloped us as the excitement of the night drew near; we were both eager to witness a matinee performance of the Addams Family musical, featuring young talents from the Aberdeen Youth Music Theatre.

As I adjusted in my cramped seat—part of a dress circle seemingly designed for a different era—my thoughts drifted to the classical charm of the theatre itself. Originally opened in the 19th century as Her Majesty’s Opera House, Tivoli is a stunning blend of architectural styles. Its interior captivates with intricate Baroque mouldings, and the vibrant blue and cream colour scheme complements the crimson draperies beautifully. This remarkable venue underwent significant renovations, particularly in the 1910s, when it transitioned from an opera house to a music hall, further enhancing its status as a cultural hub in Aberdeen.

The performance that followed was nothing short of splendid, showcasing the immense talent of the young performers. Among them was my grandson, lauded for his portrayal of Lurch, which drew praise in a local review. The joy in the theatre was palpable as families shared in the emotional experience of celebrating their children on stage. This sense of togetherness was a stark contrast to the troubling narratives surrounding today’s school environments, often marked by violence and disorder.

Aberdeen, like many regions, grapples with issues of increasing misbehaviour in schools; reports from various locales suggest that teachers regularly face harassment, fostering an atmosphere of fear and uncertainty. The recent television drama “Adolescence” draws attention to this, portraying chaotic classrooms that feel all too real. Its portrayal serves as a mirror reflecting larger societal issues, such as the difficulty schools face in enforcing discipline and guiding students positively, amid rising concerns over youth misconduct and aggression.

I was reminded of the stark realities outside the theatre that evening. Witnessing a group of youths clad in black hoodies, cycling defiantly in the middle of the road, stirred a feeling of unease. While some may decry such behaviour as mere teenage antics, the prevailing image of intimidation cannot be ignored. The struggle for schools to reclaim authority raises vital questions about the support systems needed to ensure a nurturing environment for all children.

As I reflect on my own schooling, I recall strict teachers who demanded respect and instilled a sense of responsibility among their charges. Their firm approach—rooted in experiences from past conflicts—created an order that seems increasingly elusive today. Education experts argue that students must be challenged, and meaningful consequences imposed, to foster a sense of accountability. The tendency to overlook behavioural issues in favour of nurturing a self-esteem-driven environment may inadvertently pave the way for a culture of entitlement among young people.

The juxtaposition between the joyous celebration within the walls of Tivoli and the troubled realities of local schools speaks volumes. Events like the Addams Family performance illustrate the tremendous potential for youth engagement through the arts, offering an alternative to the chaos that may dominate their daily lives. Encouraging participation in such enriching activities can serve as a vital means of instilling confidence, teamwork, and a sense of community in young people.

As I left the theatre, the hugs and cheers among families echoed loudly, reminding me of the power of these experiences to build bridges and inspire young hearts. In a world fraught with challenges, it is essential that we recognise and cultivate these moments, ensuring that the arts continue to flourish in our communities and provide a safe haven for our youth.


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